Untangle the frustration spiral now

Untangle the frustration spiral now

The frustration spiral will continue until you untangle it. When you’re in a frustration spiral, sucked down in its swirling power, it feels impossible to get out of it. You feel worse and worse as your confidence shrinks and your frustration grows. Here’s...
What the Late Bird knows about worms

What the Late Bird knows about worms

Conventional Wisdom can seriously erode your confidence. Why? Because CW says: “Here’s the answer. Go after this,” even when it doesn’t fit you. One easy example of conventional wisdom is “the early bird catches the worm.” But while...
Three questions to ask at every interview

Three questions to ask at every interview

Why not me? Why not here? And why not now? These are the three questions to ask and answer at every interview. Why not me? Why is this question so important? Because it centers you in your own value. Don’t forget: you are not asking for a job. You are offering...
Con man or confident man?

Con man or confident man?

Are you a con man? A con man is a faker; a poser: a man who uses others to get what he wants. He doesn’t have any deep or real purpose of his own.  What’s the difference? Confidence is stronger than the con. After all, you want to stand on your own two...