Why can’t you just decide and move on?

Why can’t you just decide and move on?

You’re waffling again. Too many options. Not enough clarity. How can you get clear and get a move on? Why you wafflle. First of all, because making decisions is difficult. If anyone tells you life is easy, they’re either pretending or delusional. Life...
How to recognize and overcome your fears

How to recognize and overcome your fears

You should be afraid. Fear is hardwired into you to keep you alive. The question is: how can you transform your fears? First, recognize your fears.  This is the first step. Recognize and admit your fears. Until you take this first vital step, you will be living in...
Are you caught up in a false dilemma?

Are you caught up in a false dilemma?

When you find yourself between a rock and a hard place, use this handy tool to get out of that false dilemma. On the one hand… Remember Tevye the Milkman? (from the musical Fiddler On The Roof). Whenever Tevye had a difficult decision to make, he would vacillate...
You do realize you might be wrong, right?

You do realize you might be wrong, right?

You waste a lot of energy making sure you’re right. What if you built your confidence from the other direction? You’re probably wrong. Have you noticed how many vaiables there are? In your daily routine, there are so many moving parts. From people to...