Confidence is a good story, well-told. You have a good story. Now it’s time to tell your story better.
Going under? Build better compartments
Got that sinking feeling? If you're going to stay afloat during stressful times, you'll need...
After it kills you, it makes you stronger
There's an old saying: "If it doesn't kill you, it makes you stronger," which is almost right....
Motivation is tale well-told, with a goal and a grip
What motivates you? Your tale must have these two key ingredients to keep your head in the...
Are you taking care of tomorrow tomorrow?
It's difficult to save for tomorrow today. What new habit could you work on this year to make sure...
When you’re feeling anxious, take a sip of this
Sometimes, it comes in the wee hours of morning. But it can come anytime: that anxious feeling in...
What are your characters trying to tell you?
The people around you -- your co-workers, your boss, your partner, all the characters in your...
The adventure of a lifetime begins with one step
You're waiting for the perfect moment to make the leap, when what would really help is if you...
Feel like you’re falling behind? Slow down
Feel like you'll never catch up? Learn from the lowly snail. When you feel pressure, slow...
Why can’t I focus when I need it most?
You've tried everything, but you're still stuck. Your question: "Why can't I focus?" Here's...
It means feeling the pinch in his boots
You may have heard the phrase, "Walk a mile in another man's boots." It's hard to do -- and it has...
What are you doing with the time you do have?
You don't have enough time. Right?168 hours.Each of us get one hundred sixty-eight hours every...
Do you have a long-term investment strategy?
Yes, it's true. You do need to get through today. But what about your long-term investment in what...
Still looking for your leadership style?
You have a natural aptitude for leadership, but haven't yet developed your leadership style. Let's...
What are you carrying around in your rucksack?
The things you carry, often unseen by those around you, affect who you are and how able you are to...
To understand your motivation, find your I Incident
In every great story there is a moment when something happens to the protagonist which must be...
Make the move from reactive to responsive
Reactivity is killing your game. Experience a new sense of confidence with the move to...
Look beyond your tools to the task at hand
Good tools help. I've often chanted the matra of the carpenter: "Buy the best tools you can...
When you feel trapped, do this
Feeling trapped? You have options. You just can't see them at the moment. Here's how to get...
If you want their attention, make a scene
You do want their attention, right? Because you have something to say. So make a scene.Why make a...
The power of important and not yet urgent
There is a place which is powerful and focused -- at the intersection of important and not yet...
Change the narrative.
A better narrative. This is the overriding purpose of these resources. Confidence is a good story, well told. You have the story, and it’s a whopper. But you’re not telling your own story as well as you could be.
Make us care. This is the main goal of any story well-told. You may be shy about people hearing your story, but until you say more clearly what is happening in your heart and mind, even those closest to you will have a hard time connecting with what you care deeply about.
Speak up. Let us come along with you into your story. Doing so will boost your confidence and also invite those around you into your cheering section.
Want more help?
I can help you tell your story well.
You have three options for your next step. You could read more by going to the “older entries” link, above. Or you could contact me and describe what you’re going through. And I’ll be in touch with suggestions. Or you can book a free session to make a time to get together and talk it over in person. Whatever you choose, I’m here to help you focus, overcome resistance, and get moving again.
Get focused and Get moving.
