Confidence is a good story, well-told. You have a good story. Now it’s time to tell your story better.
How to lead your partner in the dance
You lead at work, but at home you're often at a loss when it comes to leading your partner. Why is...
Why is it so hard to change a habit?
You want to change a habit. But so far, you haven't been able to make significant change, even...
Lost your Drive? It’s down here
What happened to your get up and go -- your "drive," or "calling," or "mission," or "purpose," or...
Somethings gotta give. But what?
Your life is too full. But what can you eliminate when all you really know is, "Somethings gotta...
Still avoiding conflict? Try this instead
Avoiding conflict is often easier in the short term. You're tired, or maybe you just don't want to...
The Opening Is The Way
You can focus on the Obstacle. Or, you could try this for even more rapid and sustainable...
How to have a difficult conversation
How to have a difficult conversation, without losing your conversation partner along the way. How...
How to waste less time starting now
When you let the mental trash build up, you end up losing valuable time . Here's how to waste less...
The invaluable value of the pause
Do you rush in where angels fear to tread? You might consider the art of the pause. Here's...
Is choosing your life possible?
How can you choose your life? It's not as hard as you might think. Let's start with the art of...
Stuck in the middle again?
Do you aim to please others? No wonder you're stuck in the middle again. Let's get you out of that...
How to handle the scariest thing
It varies from man to man. But we each have a scariest thing -- the one thing that cripples us the...
Write it. Read it. Do it.
You've heard the old saying: "If you can see it, you can do it." Writing helps you see what's in...
How much syrup is just right?
Don't underestimate the power of your sweet spot. Sweeten your day with the perfect amount of...
Feel like you’re going nowhere?
Nowhere is not a good place to be most of the time. Want to get somewhere? Let's a pick a place...
How to negotiate with a tyrant
When you feel pinned down by an unreasonable negotiation partner, remember this about dealing with...
Why do you keep holding back?
Another day lost, without doing what you really wanted to do. You're holding back. Why? Let's find...
Gather what matters. Relinquish the rest
You're holding on to too many possibilities. Time to relinquish most of them, so you can focus on...
If that doesn’t work, try this
If you've tried everything -- and it still doesn't work, try this.Down for the count?You're...
Where do you find it? Simple
Everybody's looking for it, one way or another. But where do you find it -- what matters most --...
Change the narrative.
A better narrative. This is the overriding purpose of these resources. Confidence is a good story, well told. You have the story, and it’s a whopper. But you’re not telling your own story as well as you could be.
Make us care. This is the main goal of any story well-told. You may be shy about people hearing your story, but until you say more clearly what is happening in your heart and mind, even those closest to you will have a hard time connecting with what you care deeply about.
Speak up. Let us come along with you into your story. Doing so will boost your confidence and also invite those around you into your cheering section.
Want more help?
I can help you tell your story well.
You have three options for your next step. You could read more by going to the “older entries” link, above. Or you could contact me and describe what you’re going through. And I’ll be in touch with suggestions. Or you can book a free session to make a time to get together and talk it over in person. Whatever you choose, I’m here to help you focus, overcome resistance, and get moving again.
Get focused and Get moving.
