Tired of not being heard? Use this simple communication technique to get your message across now.

Not getting through? Find out why your ideas are falling on deaf ears -- and how to break through. It's not what you say -- And you know this. Because at some level, you know that your ideas don't completely suck. And yet -- You're not getting through. And whether it's your partner in crime or your love partner or the guys at work -- Your message keeps falling short. And it...
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Why do you keep self-sabotaging? And how to stop this madness today.

You've been self-sabotaging again. And it isn't pretty. So why do you keep doing it? And yes, as a creative man -- it's part of your nature. But if you're ready to try something new -- here's one way to stop self-sabotaging today. Who will win the day? So first of all -- stop kidding yourself. Every day's the same. Sure, the details vary. But at the baseline of every day is a battle...
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Facing an overwhelming decision? Maybe it’s time to get stoned.

What's overwhelming you today? Because when it's too big, it pins you down by it's immensity. And when it's too small, it nags at you because you might be missing something essential. But when it's just right, you win. So let's break it down. It could be anything. Literally -- anything. It could be something as small as whether to change your socks. Or it could be something as big as w...
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Feeling adrift? Here’s how to get your motor running again.

If you're feeling like you've lost your way, you're not alone. In fact, you're in the majority -- most men lead lives of quiet desperation. But since when has being in the majority been a comfort? You're an original. This is a big part of the problem. You're breaking new ground -- or wish you were. So whether you're: in business for yourself or dreaming of doing your own thing,...
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How to reduce your frustration instantly — and get your message across.

You knew it instantly. In fact, it was clear that you weren't getting your message across. But you didn't know how to make it any clearer. So why does communication have to be so frustrating? And what can you do to make sure you're getting through? First, know your own mind. And while this may seem obvious, stop and think about this for a moment. Do you actually know what you're trying to...
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Tired of feeling tired? Change this — and get your energy back.

Why are you so tired? You know why -- it's all the stress. But what you don't know is how to get the monkey off of your back. So how do you get the monkey off your back? Write him out of the story. Stay with me now. Because you might feel like rolling your eyes when you read this -- Or you might stop reading altogether. Which would be a shame. Because the next few minutes could chan...
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How to be clear about who you are — without being a narcissist

When you aren't clear about who you are or what you bring to the table, people get confused -- including you. So what's going on here? Are you afraid to say who you are because if you do others will see you as a some kind of blowhard? If so, keep reading. Because here's a way to be clear -- without being a narcissist. Who are you, anyway? You don't know, do you? So you keep going out the ...
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The advantages of being wrong — and how to embrace the shadow side

The problem with being wrong is it makes you feel bad. And no-one wants to feel bad. But you're wasting tons of energy on being right. Which means that strangely enough, being right is slowing you down. But what if you could take a different approach to being wrong -- and get moving again? Feeling stuck? A big reason you get so stuck every day is that you want to make sure that you're right....
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How to move through regrets — even when you can’t see your way out.

Sometimes, you can't seem to get over your regrets. And you feel like an idiot. Because you knew better, but you did it anyway. And now it's killing you. So what can you do about it now? You knew better. So why did you do it? It's not like it caught you off guard. You saw this coming. But you did it anyway. So why did you do it anyway? Because you're a man. And men do stupid th...
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Why are you making this so hard — when it could be so easy?

Because this one easy fix will give you an instant energy boost. You're almost out of gas. Don't deny it. Because the fact is, you're tired before your day even really gets going. Why is that? Well, let's take a look. And you'll notice that I didn't say "Let's think about it." For good reason. More on that later -- stay tuned. But -- seriously. By the time you do the ...
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