You can’t do it all. Time to choose one and let the other go.
Not all at once.
I’m going to share a poem with you today which you already know, but maybe haven’t thought about for a bit. It’s called “The Road Not Taken” by Robert Frost. And my hope is that you will take the poem as a metephor for much of what holds you back.
Take a minute.
Did you notice?
“Long I stood…” Don’t rush your decisions. And I know: often it feels like you’ve got to do something right now. But ask yourself: “Is that really true?” Because if it’s not, take a minute and think about it. There is a good form of procrastination, and this is it.
And then keep moving.
And looked down one as far as I couldTo where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,And having perhaps the better claim,Because it was grassy and wanted wear;Though as for that the passing thereHad worn them really about the same,
One isn’t necessarily better.
And both that morning equally layIn leaves no step had trodden black.Oh, I kept the first for another day!Yet knowing how way leads on to way,I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sighSomewhere ages and ages hence:Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—I took the one less traveled by,And that has made all the difference.
Choose one.
The poet came to a Y in the road and took one of them. Which means he didn’t take the other. And notice what he says: “Yet knowing how way leads onto way, I doubted that I should ever come back.” And yes — there is a sigh. But there is also the freedom of the open road ahead.
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