What do you want?

Desire is the heart of motivation. Read these posts to help you figure out what you want.

Do you even know what you want?

You can't get what you want 'til you know what you want. -- Joe Jackson. Let's get to work finding out what you want. This is making you miserable. The problem is, there are way too many options out there. And you're a creative guy. So take that combination: too many...

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Why do you keep choosing regret?

You do realize that regret is a choice, don't you? So why do you keep choosing regret?The statistics are in: 9 out of 10 men regret major portions of their lives. And what is the major reason for this regret? You might be surprised. Because it's not what they did that...

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Are you a good son? Take the quiz.

The kind of son you are determines more about you than you may think. You once were a little son. Which means that you had parents. And you still do. And this is true whether or not they are still alive. Or whether you knew them — or not — as a child. Or whether you...

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Hard or soft? Which is better?

Are you a hard or a soft negotiator? And -- is one better than the other? You've tried both, right? Well -- which one worked the best? The Hard Way: When you were a hard ass, did you get what you want? Let's say, for example, that you went into that meeting at work,...

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Can’t move ahead?

It's embarrassing and frustrating. We get into these situations in the first place because we want to be better men. Better at work -- Better at home -- Braver. Stronger. Smarter. So, we take risks. And then we find ourselves overwhelmed -- And we feel anything but...

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How To Get What You Want

You don't have what you want. You don't have the job you want, you don't have the sex life you want -- how are you going to get what you want? How To Get What You Want The main reason you don't have what you want is because you don't know how to negotiate effectively....

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Want more help?

I can help you practice better emotional hygiene. And you have a couple of options for your next step. You could contact me and describe what you're going through. And I'll be in touch with suggestions. Or you can book a free session to make a time to get together and talk it over in person. Either way, I'm here to help you focusovercome resistance, and get moving again.

Get focused and Get moving.